Pray

If you find yourself saying to others, "pray for me," but you don't pray yourself, then you trust in other people and not in God. Go to Him and pray, connect, seek him, until you find Him.

Seek Him - Isaiah 55:6-7
Let Him in - Revelation 3:20
Reason with Him - Isaiah 1:18

My encouragement is to begin the day seeking tha face of God, and spend very real time with Him before going to bed. Prayer is a sure sign of faith, and lack of it will produce a dead faith.